Life happens, and despite our best intentions, we have no control over outcomes. Life changing events change us, often for the better. It's up to us to adapt and allow that change to happen so that we continue to grow and make the most of the time we have.
Life changing events include anything that alters your perception of who you are and your priorities. Getting married and moving to a different zip code; Having kids; dealing with healthcare issues or caring for a sick loved one; Changing jobs or being forced into situations that you aren’t prepared for.
Things change, you change, relationships change. Some people won't want to stick around for the difference. You have to decide how to cope, who to let go of, and when! Often, hanging on will only harm you further.
When your priorities change, it can be hard to feel enthusiastic about things that you use to love.
That's ok, and that's normal.
Don't force continued connections, it will only drain you further.
That life changing event has occurred and now you know that things need to change for you. Don't wait. Just go for it. Do what you feel you need to do for yourself.